Fixes#4656
As now changes to kubelet configuration can be applied without a reboot,
`talosctl upgrade-k8s` can handle the kubelet upgrades as well.
The gist is simply modifying machine config and waiting for `Node`
version to be updated, rest of the code is required for reliability of
the process.
Also fixed a bug in the API while watching deleted items with
tombstones.
Signed-off-by: Andrey Smirnov <andrey.smirnov@talos-systems.com>
