This commit fixes an issue within the service reconciler where we end
up in a constant reconciliation loop. When reconciling, the loadbalancer
status is appended to but not reset between each reconciliation, leading
to an ever growing slice of duplicate statuses.
Fixes https://github.com/tailscale/tailscale/issues/17105
Fixes https://github.com/tailscale/tailscale/issues/17107
Signed-off-by: David Bond <davidsbond93@gmail.com>