This exports a number of things from the derp (generic + client) package
to be used by the new derpserver package, as now used by cmd/derper.
And then enough other misc changes to lock in that cmd/tailscaled can
be configured to not bring in tailscale.com/client/local. (The webclient
in particular, even when disabled, was bringing it in, so that's now fixed)
Fixes#17257
Change-Id: I88b6c7958643fb54f386dd900bddf73d2d4d96d5
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>
