This patch adds a lock on the struct dgram_conn to ensure
that an other thread cannot trash a fd or alter its status
while the current thread processing it on for send/receive/connect
operations.
Starting with the 2.4 version this could cause a crash when a DNS
request is failing, setting the FD of the dgram structure to -1. If the
dgram structure is reused after that, a read access to fdtab[-1] is
attempted. The crash was only triggered when compiled with ASAN.
In previous versions the concurrency issue also exists but is less
likely to crash.
This patch must be backported until v2.4 and should be
adapt for v < 2.4.
The set of files proto_udp.{c,h} were misleadingly named, as they do not
provide anything related to the UDP protocol but to datagram handling
instead, since currently all UDP processing is hard-coded where it's used
(dns, logs). They are to UDP what connection.{c,h} are to proto_tcp. This
was causing confusion about how to insert UDP socket management code,
so let's rename them right now to dgram.{c,h} which more accurately
matches what's inside since every function and type is already prefixed
with "dgram_".
